TO ALL MEMBERS OF THE CAMPUS COMMUNITY:

Welcome to the beginning of a new school year. We hear a lot about the meaning of a university experience. A university is a community with similarities to a city, town or neighborhood. We can't expect to have a "just" or "caring" community unless we take responsibility for how we treat each other. This means that we believe it is important to respect the rights and care about the well-being of each member of the UB community.

In our community, date/acquaintance rape is unacceptable. Date rape is defined as forced, unwanted intercourse with a person you know. Please make no mistake about it...it is an act of violence. It is not a crime of passion or merely a result of miscommunication. It is an attempt to assert power. It is a violation of one's body and one's trust.

To help prevent date rape:

1-Become clear about your needs and wishes in a relationship.

2-Communicate clearly. Be direct, assertive.

3- Do not make assumptions! No means NO.

4-Make sure friends know where and with whom you are going out, and when to expect you back.

5-Get away from anyone who makes you feel uneasy.

6-Don't give in to pressure.

7-Be aware of how much alcohol you've consumed. Alcohol and drugs may cloud your judgment-and your date's!

8-Don't leave a party or social event with someone you have just met.

9-Have your first date with someone new in a public place.

If you feel your rights have been violated, please go to friends who can give you emotional support. Contact Public Safety, which employs female officers specifically trained to assist you. Public Safety, faculty and/or staff members can put you in contact with a counselor. Or you may call the Counseling Center, 645-2720, or Crisis Services Hot Line, 834-3131. Remember that date rape is never the victim's fault. For further information, contact the Counseling Center, 645-2720, the Anti-Rape Task Force, 645-3322, or the Sexuality Education Center, 829-2584.

Yours truly,

STAFF OF THE COUNSELING CENTER